Identity & Language
My Pronouns & Identity
Information about my preferred pronouns, name pronunciation, and identity terms
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- ✓Yes
- ~Okay
- ✕Nope
- !Disrespectful
Name Pronunciation
Zahara Schaefer /ZAH-hah-rah SHAY-fer/
Pronouns
- ✓she/her
- ~they/them
- !he/him
- !it/its
Words
Honorifics
- ✓ms.
- ✓ma'am
- ✓madam
- ~comrade
- ✕sai
- ✕mx.
- ✕mir
- ✕zam
- ✕shazam
- !sir
- !mr.
Person and Family Descriptions
- ✓sis
- ✓girl
- ✓woman
- ✓lady
- ~person
- ~buddy
- ~pal
- ~sib
- !enby
- !dude
- !man
- !bro
- !boy
Compliments
- ✓beautiful
- ✓pretty
- ~cute
- ~hot
- ~sexy
- !handsome
Relationship Descriptions
- ✓wife
- ✓girlfriend
- ~friend
- ~partner
- ~kissmate
- ~darling
- ~beloved
- ~boo
- ~joyfriend
- !enbyfriend
- !boyfriend
- !husband
Terms of Endearment
- ✓dear
- ✓honey
- ✓sweetheart
- ✓love
- ~babe
- ~baby
- ~sweetie
- ~cutie
- ✕buddy
- !dude
- !bro
Professional Titles
- ✓Ms. Schaefer
- ✓Ms. Zahara
- ✓Zahara
- ~Schaefer
- ✕Mr. Schaefer
- ✕Mr. Zahara
- !Sir
Gender Identity Terms
- ✓woman
- ✓female
- ✓girl
- ~person
- ~individual
- ✕non-binary
- ✕enby
- !man
- !male
- !boy
Nicknames
- ✓Zahara
- ~Zah
- ~Zara
- ✕Zaharie
- ✕Zahari
Additional Notes
Pronoun Usage: I prefer "she/her" pronouns in most contexts. "They/them" is acceptable but not preferred. Please avoid "he/him" and "it/its" as they are misgendering.
Context Matters: Some terms may be acceptable in certain contexts (like close friends) but not in others (like professional settings). When in doubt, ask or use the most respectful option.
Corrections: If you make a mistake with my pronouns or terms, a quick correction and moving on is appreciated. I understand that mistakes happen, and I appreciate the effort to get it right.
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