My Pronouns & Identity

Information about my preferred pronouns, name pronunciation, and identity terms

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Yes
Okay
Nope
Disrespectful

Name Pronunciation

Zahara Schaefer /ZAH-hah-rah SHAY-fer/

Pronouns

she/her
they/them
he/him
it/its

Words

Honorifics

ms.
ma'am
madam
comrade
sai
mx.
mir
zam
shazam
sir
mr.

Person and Family Descriptions

sis
girl
woman
lady
person
buddy
pal
sib
enby
dude
man
bro
boy

Compliments

beautiful
pretty
cute
hot
sexy
handsome

Relationship Descriptions

wife
girlfriend
friend
partner
kissmate
darling
beloved
boo
joyfriend
enbyfriend
boyfriend
husband

Terms of Endearment

dear
honey
sweetheart
love
babe
baby
sweetie
cutie
buddy
dude
bro

Professional Titles

Ms. Schaefer
Ms. Zahara
Zahara
Schaefer
Mr. Schaefer
Mr. Zahara
Sir

Gender Identity Terms

woman
female
girl
person
individual
non-binary
enby
man
male
boy

Nicknames

Zahara
Zah
Zara
Zaharie
Zahari

Additional Notes

Pronoun Usage: I prefer "she/her" pronouns in most contexts. "They/them" is acceptable but not preferred. Please avoid "he/him" and "it/its" as they are misgendering.

Context Matters: Some terms may be acceptable in certain contexts (like close friends) but not in others (like professional settings). When in doubt, ask or use the most respectful option.

Corrections: If you make a mistake with my pronouns or terms, a quick correction and moving on is appreciated. I understand that mistakes happen, and I appreciate the effort to get it right.